Is Your Therapist Doing Their Job?

Sometimes when therapy isn’t working, it’s not you. It’s your therapist. If you’ve ever walked out of therapy feeling like you were the one keeping it afloat? Like you were the one doing all the heavy lifting while your therapist sat nodding...

Can’t Force Rightness of Fit

Some truths in life are uncomfortable but liberating. Here’s one of them: you can’t force rightness of fit. Not with friends, not with your partner, and certainly not with a therapist. And for queer and neurodivergent adults—those of us who’ve lived our lives being...